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As I've said on the main soapbox page, all the items on this page are my own personal points of view, and do not represent anyone else. Best of Soapbox 2006 (Jan-May) December 2004
There's a lot talk from the politicians about the rights of householders to defend their property. Obviously, the Tony Martin episode is relevant here. Did he have the right to defend his property with the use of a gun? Once again, I dont claim to know the full facts about the law or the Tony Martin incident, so I apologize if I get any of the facts wrong. Firstly, regarding Tony Martin, I dont condone his actions, but I totally agree with his right to defend his property. Its just the means used were excessive in my opinion. Where do you draw the line though? Hypothetical situation time. Your house has been broken into several times, a couple times while you and your family (wife and two daughters) were asleep. Youd called the police, but for whatever reason they weren't able to attend the scene quick enough, meaning the perpetrators had got away. Although the police go through the motions, they admit to you that there is not much hope of catching the burglars. Even if they do catch them, what happens? They go to court, plead a deprived childhood, their parents had split up, got into drugs, etc., etc. Prison? Not a chance. Youve been a naughty boy, slapped wrists, dont do it again. Either way, the victims never see justice to be done. Is it any wonder that people get disillusioned with the police and justice system? This is fairly tame example at the moment. Lets take it a step further. Drugs play a part in some of these crimes. The people taking the drugs need to fund their habit, and will go to any means to achieve this. They break into your house. You hear a noise, and see them go into your daughters bedroom. What do you do? Call the police and hope they dont wake your daughters? If your daughters do wake up while youre making the call, and scream when they find an intruder in their rooms, whats he going to do? What are you going to do? You already know the answer to that. You are not going to stay on the phone while your daughters are screaming are you? Youre going to go in there and use whatever means necessary to protect your daughters. Maybe violence will be the result. You dont care about the consequences, you want to get this person in a position where they cannot harm your family. What happens next? You end up in court, and prison (just remind me whos the victim again?) for assault. The burglar, what about them? Prison? Not a chance. Youve been a naughty boy, slapped wrists, dont do it again. Oh, and well throw in a drug rehabilitation programme as well. And you know the really sick thing. The burglar claims compensation from you for the injuries you cause them. And the doo-gooders, civil liberties people think this is right (generally)!!! The fact is, it doesnt matter what the crime is, the system favours the criminal. It always appears that no one gives a damn about the victim. The system seems to forget that if they didnt break into your property, none of the resulting actions would occur. YOU ARE NOT IN THE WRONG. The burglar is!!!! Ask yourself this. Faced with the above situation, would you kill someone who is using and threatening your children in order to get what they want? Maybe kill is too excessive. Would you use excessive violence against them? Put them in hospital. Im sure your answer is the same as mine. The only argument I can see against any of the above, is if you up the ante the criminals will do the same. Maybe so. But surely the law is supposed protect the citizens, not the criminals. The other point I'd better make is that while the media reports on the cases that show how the system is failing, I'm sure that there are cases where the system works. They just don't get the publicity though. (I wonder why Ozzy Osbourne wasn't charged when he tackled the burglar who raided his home?). Youve probably guessed I feel strongly about this. Its another example of how this country is on a downhill slope, with the promises made by the politicians to solve these problems never resulting in any actions. But all of the above is a total fabrication isnt it? Because we live in safer Britain dont we !! (See below). Apparently Britain is safer under Labour (or words
to this effect. I admit don't know the exact quote).
Let's have a look at this. I'd better say before I start, that all the points in this soapbox are based on what I've read in the papers and overheard on the radio, so I apologise in advance if I get any of the facts wrong. Firstly, let's look at terrorism. We have gone to war in Iraq (rightly or wrongly), as part of the war on terrorism, or was that because of the weapons of mass destruction. Anyway, regardless of the reasons behind this, the main point is that we are now a frontline target for the terrorists. This war has made all the innocent citizens in Britain targets for these terrorists. Now don't get me wrong. Britain has always been near the front of the line as a target of terrorism. However, we have now moved up to the front alongside America. Now, as I've said previously on this soapbox, I don't condone
the actions of any party in disputes like these, but the methods
employed by the terrorists tend to be stronger and more direct than
any of the actions we may take. The reason behind this is to get
the cause publicity. Back to safer Britain. There are now more police officers. Wonderful. No more cutbacks. The link between the number of police officers and crime statistics has been made. As crime increases, you need more police officers to deal with this crime. If you cutback, does crime cutback as well? You know the answer to that. Its a pity the courts dont punish the criminals as they should though. The naughty boy, slapped wrist, dont do it again approach seems to be employed. This again falls under the wing of another soapbox (Crowded jails, intimidated witnesses, criminals being let off or so it seems, etc.). So its nice to see all these extra police officers on the beat isnt it? What do you mean you havent? Take a look at all the traffic police with speed cameras. (Sorry, couldnt resist that one). But seriously, have you seen more policemen back on the beat? Need I say anymore. One final controversial suggestion on this. Police resources do tend to get put into sports events and town centres for alcohol related crime. Is there now an argument for putting a tax on sports tickets to pay for the police presence? Should the tax on alcohol be raised to pay for the police presence? Do you think that the taxes you pay should pay for policing at these occasions, or would you rather see an officer on the beat deterring the crime on your street? Back to safer Britain. Violent crime is on the increase (I believe). Only today, a banker was stabbed in Chelsea, in front of his young daughter. Some reports even said that teenagers were involved. If Britain is safer, why is violent crime on the increase? Now it might seem by this soapbox Im having a go at our wonderful Labour government. Not so. I dont believe any other political party would have made any difference to the points made above. However, I believe the claim that Britain is safer doesnt add up. This applies to any party that may get in at the next election. I could go on for hours and hours about this, but Ill leave it here. This subject is bound to raise its ugly head again, and the other points made will unfortunately no doubt find there way on to this page again in the future. November 2004
Bullying comes in many forms. Its starts at school, and continues into adult life through domestic violence or bullying at work. A survey said 1 in 3 people has been bullied. I was bullied at school. Ive also had my life threatened at work by a bullying boss (fortunately I was already working my notice at this firm). Pity I didnt think to sue the pants off them at the time. My wife has been bullied, both at school and in her adult life. Heres the worst part. My six year old daughter has also been bullied at school. She was first bullied at the age of four. How sick is that? I wasnt bullied until secondary school. My daughter was bullied the in the first year of her school life. Shes been too scared to go in some days. At the end of the day, this just shows how todays society has changed. If you read this soapbox on a regular basis, youll know how often the lack of respect todays youth seems to have gets a mention. So what are the reasons behind this? Ill concentrate on school bullying here. Well, in my opinion, a lack of discipline in society, both in the home and outside the home is partly to blame. Compensation culture also plays a part. What was wrong with the village bobby (whats one them I here you say) giving a clip round the ear hole to youths that have got out of hand? So much as breathe on a child today, and their up in court being sued. And whats happened to the slipper/cane at school (provided it was only used as a last resort). Smacking is now being clamped down on. Now before I spout off here, I agree that excessively smacking (another form of bullying) is out of order. But how on earth do all these interfering do-gooders expect us to discipline our kids otherwise. Shouting at them only gets you so far. A stubborn child can rule the roost. You ground them. They go out anyway terrorising neighbourhoods. You read about it in the papers. You withhold there pocket money. They take the money out of your wallet. Or, as a worst case scenario, tell the authorities youve been abusing them. You get labelled a child abuser for their lack of respect/discipline. Extreme examples, or proof that todays society has created an environment where children can do what they want. What can parents do all you know-it-alls? (Fortunately our daughter isnt at that age yet). Whats worse is the Peter and the Wolf syndrome this sort of action can result in. If children can make up stories like these, they wont be believed if it ever happens for real. It also wastes resources that could be used for genuine cases. At the other end of the scale are the parents who dont care? Let your kids do what they want. Anyone complains about them (the kids), give them a mouthful of abuse, and hit them if they dont go away. Wonderful world we live in. Im going a bit off the subject here. Going back to our daughter, fortunately she isnt constantly being picked on. However, it does raise its ugly head now and then. Weve actually been told at one point that our daughter will have to toughen up if shes to survive. So if shes picked on, she should hit back. Two wrongs obviously make a right. To be fair though, the school has always tried its best to nip it in the bud when it occurs, and Im sure it can be hard getting the point across to children at this age. Do the bullies at school become the bullying husbands/wives/managers of the future? Who knows? These areas of bullying are more suited to another soapbox. The fact is, there are no easy answers. Something needs to be done soon however. And its about time the government saw this. The news this
week is that smoking is going to be banned in all pubs that serve
hot food.
Now before I start, I'd better say that myself and my wife are both non-smokers. So your probably going to jump to the conclusion that I'm all in favour of this move. Wrong. Read on. I believe this is a move too far. I don't want to breathe other peoples smoke at work, or when I'm out for a meal. However. when I go for a drink with the lads, I don't object to them smoking. It's part of the social culture. So I'll ask the question, why is it not possible for the eating areas to be non-smoking and the bar area to be for smokers? Okay, theres an argument to say the people working in the bar might not want to passive smoke. Possibly there's an argument for the ban in the serving area. Or maybe, the person applying for the job in the bar area should be made aware that they could possible passive smoke. Or does this open the floodgates for all workers in all jobs (i.e. office workers as well)? How do non-smokers working in the tobacco industry manage? One point that I will make is that the smoking lobby is powerful and has friends in the government. Another point that can be made is that if a lot of people give up smoking then the government will loose a lot of income from tax. Where is the shortfall going to be made up? Yes, you've guessed it, the likes of you and me who don't smoke. Basically, if people want to kill themselves by smoking, let them. It's their choice. If they want to give up, by all means help them. But if not, it's a free world (debatable?), let them smoke. Just make the tobacco companies pay for their medical treatment in the future. And don't let them sue the tobacco companies for compensation if they do get a serious smoking related illness (compensation culture again!!). They know the risks. There are a probably more points that can be made on this subject. However I'll end it here though. I'm sure your ready for a ciggie break by now. At the moment there are a lot of people who used to work in IT unemployed. Believe it or not, the employers are complaining of a skill shortage as well. Hmm. Something doesn't add up there. Anyway what are the reasons behind this? Well firstly, ageism. Basically, when you reach the age of 30 you're obviously too old to work a computer, and therefore unemployable. Your brains had it, you can't keep up with technology, and bascially youre useless. (How all you silver surfers manage I don't know?). Now don't get me wrong. I'm sure this doesn't apply to all employers. But I'm also sure the majority do apply this rule. I fall into this category. I'm over 30. Fortunately I'm employed (at the moment). Am I employed because of my technical knowledge? No, I'm employed for my product knowledge. Anyway, I'm getting into areas that could cause me trouble there. The other thing with over 30s is they are likely to have a family. They've got commitments. They cannot work 12 hours a day without any notice. They will not allow themselves to be walked all over. By this time they know when theyre being treated badly by management. They wont stand for it when the management crosses the line. Theyre troublemakers!! Secondly, there's education. Employers today are looking for graduates. Obviously, graduates are better employees than non-graduates. (Not much hope for me then!!). What about the people who make this rule. Yes, you've guessed it. Theyre graduates themselves. So skills mean sweet FA, its education thats the important factor. Now hold on a minute. There's a skills shortage. There are unemployed IT people with the skills. Why not give them the jobs? A revolutionary idea I know. Who said I was past it? Shit. I forgot. They're over 30 and not graduates. Damn. B&Q for us all then. Thirdly, there are agencies. I lot of jobs are still advertised through agencies. Agencies shortlist people for the employers to interview. Let's take a hypothetical example: VB programmer required. Must have experience in VB6, SQL Server and full development lifecycle. Any knowledge of .Net, ASP and XML would be advantageous, but is not essential as training will be given. Graduates preferred. Lets see how an agency would read that: VB Programmer required. Must have experience in VB6, SQL Server, full development lifecycle, .Net, ASP, XML. Must be a graduate and under 30. No one else need apply. Exaggerated example. Maybe. The point is, unless youve got all the experience being asked for, you havent got a chance. Agencies recognize that employers are ageist and prefer graduates. They will only put people forward who most closely match the job description. That is, they have all the experience being asked for and education wanted. Fourthly, theres outsourcing. This is a worrying trend these days. People in call centres and IT development should worry about this one. In fact, it probably applies to manufacturing as well. The fact is, and has always been that companies over in India, China and the Eastern block can do the work at a lower cost due to cheap labour. The monthly wage of an IT person in India is around £300-£350. Now Im not going to get into the call centres and manufacturing sections of this point. Lets just deal with IT development. Are the people in these countries doing a better job than the people over here? Well yes is the answer to that (in most cases). Why? Because the labour is so cheap over there, the companies can afford to train there people up to the highest standard. Do UK companies get this saving passed onto them? Not always (they still have to pay for the training don't they?). They just get a better quality of work (possibly debatable). This trend is set to continue. So what can you say? If a person was to ask me if IT development was an area to get into today, Id say no. Forget it. Youre going to have to be a graduate and someone who wants to progress into management. IT development is not a career for life!! A recent report said that a third of IT people were moving out of IT into other areas of employment, such as plumbing and electricians. Most said they were glad to be out of IT, and they were a lot happier in themselves due to the lack of stress in their new careers. Good for them I say. The real shame is that employers are too blinkered. People over 30 have a lot to offer. From a management perspective, surely you would rather have an employee who speaks up when he thinks your wrong instead of a yes sir, your right sir, lick your boots sir employee (a creep). There are more points I could make on this subject, but I won't. All I will say to you all, particularly if your in IT, is take a look to the future. Watch the market. And if you get the chance to more into another career, consider it seriously. October 2004
On visiting Llangollen last weekend we discovered that the public toilets there were now charging 20p to use the facilities. So if there's five of you, thats £1 for the privilege of relieving yourself (maths was always my strong point). Now don't get me wrong, Llangollen isn't unique in this respect. Numerous public loo's in this country are now going the same way. The reason behind this. The councils can't afford to keep them free (allegedly). Obviously, without the extra income, they wouldn't be able pay for the upkeep of the toilets (just remind me why we pay our taxes? It's also funny how they always have enough money for their pay rises isn't it? Meow!!). Now normally, we would then go to the Llangollen Steam Railway station and use the loo's there. Not this day. It was a Thomas the Tank engine day. No one was allowed on the station platform without a train ticket. (Your lucky your not the subject of this soapbox). Now it's not as if the railway would have lost out by letting us use the loo's. Whenever we do use them, we always buy something in the shop. You lost out that day though didn't you. Anyway back to the toilet situation. By now the family is doing the ministry of funny walks. I've tied a knot in it. The wife's put a cork in it. No choice. 40(pee) lighter we get to use the facilities. So what do you get for your money. A proper toilet seat? Loo roll? Not a f**king chance. Two bits of wood screwed to the bowl. Nice to know the extra revenue is going to improving the facilities. Anyway, it makes you wonder how long it will be before they start putting meters on our loo's at home? 10 pence a flush (Toilet Tax). You think I'm just taking the piss don't you? September 2004
A council in the UK, I can't remember where, has cut all the branches off a Horse Chestnut tree so that kids wont climb it to get the conkers. Reason for this. They don't want to be sued if the kids were to fall. Let's sit back and think about this for a minute. 1...2...3...........59...60. What can you say? I mean, I don't even need to rant and rave about it. It's just too stupid to even get mad about. Is this the world we live in? We elect people to make stupid decisions like this because they are frightened money-grabbing parents are going to take them to court if their child climbs up a tree to get conkers and gets injured. The council is responsible for this. The tree has been around for decades producing conkers like it does every Auterm, and yes, kids have climbed up it or thrown sticks at it to get conkers, and probably they may even have hurt themselves. It's part of the fun of getting conkers isn't it. Suddenly this year, it (the tree) can't do what nature intended of it, and produce conkers because bureaucrats who have far too much time on their hands can't think of anything better to do than worry about kids getting hurt while trying to get conkers. The kids have done this for years. The tree has allowed the kids to do this for years. What's wrong now? Conkers are banned at some schools. Why? The schools are frightened of getting sued if a kid got injured playing conkers. Where does it end? What about school sports? Is rugby banned? Is cricket banned? No it isn't. Which do you think is more likely to cause an injury? Football or conkers? Uproar if football was banned. 10....9....8....7....6....5....4....3....2....1.... Deep breathes. We live in a stupid society. The lawyers have taken over. Compensation culture rules. Don't get me wrong. I would be gutted if my daughter got hurt while climbing a tree. However, I would also be asking her what the bl**dy hell she was doing climbing a tree. Kids will be kids. You can't wrap them up in cotton wool. You just do your best by them, and hope they'll turn out okay. Has anyone noticed how they put a foam coating around scaffolding now. Is this because they don't want people to sue them if they walk into the scaffolding? When are they going to put the same around lampposts and bus stops? Does anyone remember an advert for Softmints? Mr Soft walked down a street that had padding on everything. The fence, postbox, cars, etc.. Is this the society we are moving to? On this soapbox I'll tackle a more controversial issue, terrorism. This is probably one of the most controversial subjects I've ever tackled on this page. Now before I start, I don't claim to know the full details of any of the issues nor am I going to condone the actions on any side in any dispute. However, we all thought that a new low had been reached on 9/11 when those planes were crashed into the twin towers. Why do innocent people have to pay for the actions of their government and made to suffer by the perpetrators? We were wrong. The events in Beslan proved that. How anyone can see children as a legitimate bargaining tool to further your cause beggars belief. What worries me is what will be the new low after this.
Now I don't want to get into the Israel vs Palestinian argument. I also don't want to get into the Chechen or al-Qaeda arguments. This doesn't mean I condone their actions. Far from it. But I really don't have the full picture to make an informed judgement. However, I do want to make a few points from a different tact, and please don't think I'm trivialising any issue. Firstly, a call to all groups around the world. Remember, not all people condone the actions of there governments. Why make them suffer for these actions? Secondly, humans are supposed to be an intelligent race. Are we? An intelligent race would know killing to promote a cause is wrong. An intelligent race would get around a table and talk, shout and argue there points. All sides would listen. Common ground may be found, and a compromise reached. You don't know until you try. Sometimes you feel like banging there heads together. At the end of the day, we've all got to live on this world together. We should make more of an effort to get on. All parties involved should forget the posturing, flexing the muscles and pride. It's not a sign of weakness to provide a secure future for our children by talking. Remember, two wrongs don't always make a right. Enough said.
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